12 months or more ahead ¾ Formal or informal? Big or small? Think about the type of wedding you want and what time of year you want it to take place. ¾ Set budget. ¾ Set the wedding date. ¾ Select ceremony site and reserve. ¾ Select reception site and reserve. ¾ Buy wedding rings, order engravings. ¾ Hire wedding coordinator, if desired.
Six months or more ahead
¾ Order dress and accessories, including veil, shoes, stockings, lingerie, etc. ¾ Compile guest list and organize addresses. ¾ Finalize wedding date. ¾ Choose attendants. ¾ Book officiant. ¾ Book caterer. ¾ Book florist. ¾ Order wedding cake. ¾ Book music for reception and ceremony. ¾ Book photographer and videographer. ¾ Plan and book honeymoon. ¾ Send save-the-date cards, if using. ¾ Choose favors and plan any details of reception, decorations, balloons, etc. ¾ Select bridal registry. ¾ Purchase or reserve groom's attire. ¾ Select attendants' gowns. ¾ Select men's formalwear. ¾ Arrange transportation and limousine for the wedding day. ¾ Reserve rental equipment, such as tables, chairs, tents, etc. ¾ Order stationery, including invitations and thank-you notes. ¾ Book a room for wedding night and reserve accommodations for out-of-town guests. Four months ahead ¾ Make reservations for rehearsal dinner. ¾ Choose gifts for wedding party. ¾ Write thank-you notes as gifts arrive. ¾ Shop for trousseau. ¾ Find a new place to live. ¾ Shop for home furnishings. ¾ Set an appointment for a complete physical exam. ¾ Update your immunizations. ¾ Finalize honeymoon plans. Two months ahead ¾ Discuss details of menu with caterer. ¾ Discuss service with officiant. ¾ Choose readings for ceremony. | ¾ Write your wedding vows, if you choose. ¾ Try out makeup and hairstyle. ¾ Buy guest book. ¾ Have programs printed, if using. ¾ If your state requires blood tests, make appointments to be tested. ¾ Schedule rehearsal time and rehearsal dinner. ¾ Address and mail invitations. ¾ Check local newspaper for wedding announcement deadline. ¾ Obtain marriage license and request certificate copies. ¾ If you intend to change your name, prepare the necessary documents. ¾ Send change-of-address information to post office.
Two weeks ahead ¾ Have final dress fitting with shoes, jewelry and lingerie. ¾ Begin seating plan, and write place cards.¾ Notify caterer of guest count. ¾ Write toasts for rehearsal dinner and wedding reception. ¾ Address announcements. ¾ Break in wedding shoes at home. ¾ Designate someone to look after your home while you are on your honeymoon. ¾ Find out where your guests will be staying if you plan to deliver welcome notes or gifts to their rooms. ¾ Finalize seating plan. ¾ Assign specific responsibilities, such as handing out corsages and boutonnieres, to members of your wedding party. ¾ Pick up dress or have it delivered. ¾ Confirm details with caterer. ¾ Confirm honeymoon arrangements, and give your itinerary to a friend or family member in case of emergency. ¾ Pack for honeymoon. ¾ Update caterer with final guest count.
One day ahead ¾ Confirm transportation arrangements for ceremony and reception. ¾ Give announcements to an attendant for mailing after the wedding. ¾ Have manicure and pedicure. ¾ Rehearse ceremony. ¾ Hold rehearsal dinner; give gifts to parents and wedding party. ¾ Prepare tip and payment envelopes for vendors.
Your wedding day! ¾ Relax, and enjoy yourselves. You have planned well! |
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